Becoming a unified church that transcends the spiritual parallel of our disunited brick and mortar buildings requires sacrifice on the parts of leaders. It requires that we sacrifice our brand, our name, and sometimes the fruit we see from our own work. Paul understood this. In 1 Corinthians 3 he says this:
“Aren’t you living like people of the world? When one of you says, ‘I am a follower of Paul,’ and another says, ‘I follow Apollos,’ aren’t you acting just like people of the world? After all, who is Apollos? Who is Paul? We are only God’s servants through whom you believed the Good News. Each of us did the work the Lord gave us. I planted the seed in your hearts and Apollos watered it, but it was God who made it grow. It’s not important who does the planting, or who does the watering. What’s important is that God makes the seed grow. The one who plants and the one who waters work together with the same purpose. And both will be rewarded for their own hard work. For we are both God’s workers. And you are God’s field. You are God’s building.”
So many times in our lives we become territorial over things we really have no business being territorial over (now that I think of it I am not sure if we have the right to be territorial over anything) because it’s all God’s territory. However, sometimes we get it in our head that something is really ours. It’s my house, my car, my small group, my church, my money, my volunteers, my idea, my cubicle, my time… you get the idea. But those of us who have been involved in leadership in the church and in the business world resonate with the fact that sometimes it seems like we have ideas or we invest in something or someone and then another person comes along and reaps the benefits of ‘my’ hard work. When in reality, if you are in the secular world, if it benefits the organization then you should rejoice. If you are in the church world, if it benefits the Kingdom, then you should rejoice A LOT! Because if there is one thing that the evil one will use to hold us under in our ability to lead it is our insecurities. We ask in frustration, “How dare that person capitalize on my idea?!” But that translates into, “I was finding some worth and significance in that idea and now they are gonna reap what I sowed!” But in reality when we find our worth and value in our accomplishments we will ride the roller coaster of insecurities and our leadership will be reactionary rather than progressive because lets face it, though we may have a few really good ideas or accomplishments we have just as many duds and failures. And if we choose to find our worth and value in the good then we also have to see our ‘unworth’ in the bad. However, we do not have to be prisoner to this way of thinking about ourselves. Jesus said if you want to become great you must be a servant to all. That means if someone benefits even unjustly from your work then you surrender it. That reminds me of another saying of Jesus (he had a lot of those!), “If you want to save your life you must lose it.” The more we cling to our ideas and accomplishments the less we benefit from them, but when hold them out with open hands not only might someone use them, but the more we will grow and benefit from them.
When David was king of Israel he did not cling to the kingdom. In fact his own son Absalom plotted to take over the kingdom that David had worked and fought to establish and David layed it down and did not fight against Absalom’s ‘hostile takeover’. Absalom would set up shop near the entrance to the city and as people would come to present their grievances to the king Absalom would intercept them and say things like, “If I were king, I would do this or that,” and “I think the king should hear your case, i would”. In fact the Bible says that “He stole the hearts of all the people of Israel”. Yet David did not fight against him, or have him assassinated, or even tell the people that Absalom was wrong. He let Absalom’s intentions play themselves out and eventually Absalom was seen for what he was. (2 Samuel 17-18).
And so what does all this mean for you and I? Don’t find your value and self-worth in the things of this world. If you do you will cling to them and it will lead to your destruction. But rather find your life and worth in Christ’s love for you and when someone wants to come and take the things you have worked hard for, then let them have them even when you are totally justified in slapping them upside the head with the three-ring hole punch on your desk. Because that is the way that Jesus modeled for us. Think about this: Jesus suffered the humiliation of the cross, was in agony for the people that his disciples (who deserted him at his death) would get to reap the benefits from. They become the rock stars of the church, they were the ones people were wanting to see and touch and hear. And Jesus got a cross… right? You see how this gets played out in our lives? Jesus realized that they were going to be great at His expense, but he told them:
“You know that the rulers in this world lord it over their people, and officials flaunt their authority over those under them. But among you it will be different. Whoever wants to be a leader among you must be your servant, and whoever wants to be first among you must become your slave. For even the Son of Man came not the be served but to serve others and to give his life as a ransom for many.” – Matthew 20:25-28
At the end of the day who are we? Who is Paul? Who is Apollos? Well in the Christian world we consider them heroes right? But Paul was legitimately asking, who are we that we have any right to cling even to the fruit of our labors? It’s not our fruit in the first place! I just planted a seed or watered, but at the end of the day I am simply a laborer in God’s field. So when that volunteer that you have been investing in and mentoring goes to the children’s ministry instead of staying in youth. Or when that dynamic, on-fire group leader changes churches. Or when that person in your company steals your idea, or gets the promotion before you… let them go, let them have it. Because when you lay your life, your ego, your territory down then you will find life.
Light up the dark!
Jeremy
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